How to Kiss
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A kiss is a perfect way to tell someone you love them, a perfect way to connect with that special someone and a perfect way to take your relationship to the next level. However, not every kissing moment will merge into an instant scene from 'The Notebook'. Sometimes you can leave feeling the furthest thing from love and passion; instead, feeling suffocated, like you're drowning or just plain disgusted. Some of us simply don't know how to kiss or have never kissed anyone before. That's okay. Just follow a few of these guidelines and you'll be fully qualified in no time.
Firstly, make sure you don't engulf the other person. You don't want to eat them up, because that's not the point of kiss. So opening your mouth as big as possible is certainly not the way to go. Keep it natural, tender and sweet. Control your tongue. As soon as we hear the words french kiss, we want to immediately jump into it, but you should start slow and watch the saliva. Trust me, it can get quite messy sometimes (of course some people may like that, but you should check first). Peck the lips first, then once it feels right (and it will), you can start going further. Respect the other person and imagine what they may be feeling, don't make it selfish but romanticize the kiss to make it a memorable and enjoyable experience for both of you. Below are a few kissing 'moves' or 'techniques' which will either help you enter into a kiss much more smoothly, or make that peck on the lips turn into something much more passionate and romantic. |
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Kissing Moves
Cup Face with Both HandsThis is a great way to pull someone closer while being gentle. Either partner can place their hands on the cheek or neck, making the moment much more passionate.
Tease Before You KissBefore the actual kiss, you could try to take it slowly, make your way up to the mouth by playing with the lips for a bit then stopping for a second. This provides a sense of spontaneity, when the kiss finally comes, not only will there be a sense of surprise but your partner will long for it even more.
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Gently Touch ForeheadsTouching and resting your forehead on theirs is a great way to bond and get closer, anticipating what's about to happen. It's a trick that turns any moment romantic.
Wrap Arms Around the BodyWrapping your arms around the other person is a great way to connect and feel them close to you. It's about bonding and not only sharing a passionate kiss, but sharing the idea of care and compassion toward one another.
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Play with Her HairA guy doing this to the girl is much more common, especially as there's usually more hair to play with. However, it works either way. It's a great trick to make contact with the other person and show your intention.
Push Her Up Against the WallGirls normally prefer the guy performing this technique, as it feels dominating and somewhat overpowering, making the moment even more passionate. However, it works in any situation, as long as you have a wall behind you, obviously.
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