the right person...
Before you look into finding someone, you should be content and sure of who you are and, more importantly, what you want. Once you're ready, dates will flow in and your irresistible self will certainly get some attention.
Finding the right person could happen anywhere. It could be in the morning, while waiting in line at the coffee shop, buying lunch from your local takeaway or doing your weekly shop. So it's always good to get your best smile on and be open to conversation. However, even if it's still not happening, there's no need to fret. There are countless ways to explore your options and keep trying until you find who you're looking for. But here are some quick pointers to remember:
Finding the right person could happen anywhere. It could be in the morning, while waiting in line at the coffee shop, buying lunch from your local takeaway or doing your weekly shop. So it's always good to get your best smile on and be open to conversation. However, even if it's still not happening, there's no need to fret. There are countless ways to explore your options and keep trying until you find who you're looking for. But here are some quick pointers to remember:
Set your values straight By knowing what type of person you consider 'perfect' for you, you will spare yourself and others a lot of time and disappointment. Narrow down what you want in a date, their personality, their hobbies: the key is to have a common ground so that you can connect with the things you have in common.
Stay Realistic It is really easy to romanticize how the date will go and imagine a future from day one. However, you should remember that not every date will end in wedding bells. It takes time. Dating is a trial-and-error process. It's about learning as much as possible about the other person and learning what you like or don't in the meantime. Staying realistic simply means you'll save yourself the disappointment later and you'll be much more prepared if someone isn't quite what you expected. However, this doesn't mean you should lose hope or only expect the worst. Keep your values up and your judgement fair, and if they're not what you wanted, simply keep looking.
Don't get too desperate Anyone can smell desperation from a mile away, and it's certainly anything but sexy. Attracting a partner means being content and attracting them because of that person you are, not because you're desperate and tired of being single. Enjoy each step of the 'hunting process' because before you know it, it'll be over.
Stay Realistic It is really easy to romanticize how the date will go and imagine a future from day one. However, you should remember that not every date will end in wedding bells. It takes time. Dating is a trial-and-error process. It's about learning as much as possible about the other person and learning what you like or don't in the meantime. Staying realistic simply means you'll save yourself the disappointment later and you'll be much more prepared if someone isn't quite what you expected. However, this doesn't mean you should lose hope or only expect the worst. Keep your values up and your judgement fair, and if they're not what you wanted, simply keep looking.
Don't get too desperate Anyone can smell desperation from a mile away, and it's certainly anything but sexy. Attracting a partner means being content and attracting them because of that person you are, not because you're desperate and tired of being single. Enjoy each step of the 'hunting process' because before you know it, it'll be over.
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the perfect first kiss...
Having a perfect date doesn't end without that romantic, spontaneous kiss at the end of the night. However, that kiss can either leave your date keen for more or running for the hills. So its majorly important; it sets the tone for the date, the connection between you and the beginning of a possible relationship.
That first kiss can be so romantic that it leaves you dizzy, light-headed and a little star-struck all at once. This is because kissing releases endorphins, which means it causes you to feel happy.
To experience that, make sure you don't engulf the other person. Be gentle and slow. You don't want to bump noses or aggressively grab the other person into a kiss. Secondly, you need to let the other person know you're ready without pushing too hard. Having 'a moment' is based on its spontaneity. So you can't force it. If you do, that romantic moment will be incredibly awkward and one that neither one of you will want to return to. So take it slow and try to read what the other person may be thinking.
There are a few ways to kiss and if you want to make sure you come across as an expert from the off (even if you're not), take a look at our beginner's guide to kissing and start learning!
That first kiss can be so romantic that it leaves you dizzy, light-headed and a little star-struck all at once. This is because kissing releases endorphins, which means it causes you to feel happy.
To experience that, make sure you don't engulf the other person. Be gentle and slow. You don't want to bump noses or aggressively grab the other person into a kiss. Secondly, you need to let the other person know you're ready without pushing too hard. Having 'a moment' is based on its spontaneity. So you can't force it. If you do, that romantic moment will be incredibly awkward and one that neither one of you will want to return to. So take it slow and try to read what the other person may be thinking.
There are a few ways to kiss and if you want to make sure you come across as an expert from the off (even if you're not), take a look at our beginner's guide to kissing and start learning!
kissing releases endorphins, making you feel happy
exploring your options...
Finding the perfect match doesn't always come as easy as we want it to, but don't lose faith. There's always the other option that many actually prefer when it comes to meeting new people: online dating or dating apps.
Nowadays, technology has advanced to the point where meeting people face to face isn't the only option to finding 'the one'. People find that online dating is faster, much more convenient and you are practically guaranteed a date every time. The trick is to create a detailed profile about who you are and what you're looking for in a partner. Then let the swipes trickle in!
Nowadays, technology has advanced to the point where meeting people face to face isn't the only option to finding 'the one'. People find that online dating is faster, much more convenient and you are practically guaranteed a date every time. The trick is to create a detailed profile about who you are and what you're looking for in a partner. Then let the swipes trickle in!
You may not be aware of it, but there are websites and apps for every type of fetish when it comes to dating. You can find a dating site for specific professions, hobbies and likes or dislikes. So get googling! Here is a short list of some of the most well-known dating sites out there.
Online dating might not be for everyone, and a large number of the public argues for and against the notion of meeting someone online, however, if you are careful with your details and immediately halt any relationship that raises any red flags, then you never know what could happen. After all, one swipe might finally bring you the opportunity to kiss someone special this National Kissing Day. So don't knock it 'til you've tried it!
Online dating might not be for everyone, and a large number of the public argues for and against the notion of meeting someone online, however, if you are careful with your details and immediately halt any relationship that raises any red flags, then you never know what could happen. After all, one swipe might finally bring you the opportunity to kiss someone special this National Kissing Day. So don't knock it 'til you've tried it!
